"What is the appropriate way of rejecting a shidduch? If you know they won’t “get” your answer based on something you feel strongly about but it’s more personal and you also dont want them to think your picky…."
"Now of course you will tell me “when I tell the shadchan that “it’s not for me” they try to convince me that it is! It’s better just not to call them back! I have two comments"